After discovering the story of Jim and Elisabeth Elliot, I started immersing myself in stories and biographies of missionaries. Among those that deeply moved me was the story of John and Betty Stam, American missionaries who served in China during the Chinese Civil War. In December 1934, Communist soldiers invaded their homes, arrested the Stams, and eventually martyred them, leaving behind their infant daughter.
By Life or By Death: The Life and Legacy of John and Betty Stam is a new biography by Andrew Montonera, a great-grandson of Cornelius Stam, John’s brother. It provides a comprehensive, well-researched portrayal of John and Betty’s lives—from their humble beginnings and family histories to their conversions, love story, marriage, and martyrdom. The author’s connection to the Stams lends the narrative a sense of intimacy and makes it even more impactful.
One highlight of this book is its inclusion of the Stams’ personal letters, photos, and journal entries. This addition gives glimpses into their hearts and minds without overexposing private details. The book also features Betty’s poems, which are beautiful and moving. Her poems reveal her deep faith and giftedness with words. I enjoyed reading her poems!
Montonera does an outstanding job of transporting readers into the lives of John and Betty and making their stories accessible to a new generation. The book’s title, By Life or By Death, reflects the heart of John Stam’s last letter, and underscores the Stams’ resolve to live and die by their faith. Their story will challenge you to consider what it truly means to follow Christ, no matter the cost. It will leave you reflective about your faith.
I highly recommend this book to anyone looking to be inspired by a story of sacrifice, faith, and unwavering commitment. The Stams’ legacy remains as powerful and relevant today as it was in 1934. It will stir you to follow their example of surrender and faithfulness.
“It’s clear as daylight to me that the only worthwhile life is one of unconditional surrender to God’s will, and of living in His way, trusting His love and guidance” – Betty Stam.
*Moody Publishers graciously gave me a copy for an honest review.*
